First of all eldercare demands can require such an investment of time. In todays 24/7 world, you can find your self overwhelmed with the full time responsibility of cargiving. Talk to your employer about the situation. You don’t have to give every detail of care. However, your company may have an eldercare program. Your employer knows what affect you away from work will affect your productivity at work. Also, ask coworker if they know of services in the community to help out.